Unpredictability can be a turn off sometimes. Such things grown in on you over a long span of time.
You know what else can be a turn off? Gossip. Yes, oodles and ooldes of gossip. Somehow, one of the many cliches that we hear seems to deem fit the situations we encounter. But gossip never dies. Hail, all gossip-mongers. Somehow, privacy is non-existent. As is the ability to exercise the brain in judgment. And a lot of other things, but in judgment, mainly. The brain is used to mug, and only mug. When it comes to decisions? We'd rather go with the majority, wouldn't we? And we're in a law school? One of the million ironies of life.